HOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN STILL BE AFFECTIONATE EVEN WITH LONG DISTANCE
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We love and find new partners each day, and this happens when you see some loving features in that person. Life is fun and enjoyable when you see someone you truly love and cherish so much, but when this person leaves your sight maybe he/she travelled on a long distance break, vacation or changed location, you’ll feel depressed due to the fact that you really cherish that person so much. This is currently happening to me now but I know how to deal with it, and that’s why I came to share it here.
Even with the fact that one will still have to move on till that partner comes back, a long distance relationship can be very frustrating and challenging. It can be hard to feel that your relationship is progressing forwards when you rarely see each other. Long distance can be a big test of your commitment to one another and this helps build a stronger relationship if you succeed.
Your relationship can be made better even with long distance if you do these;
1. Always Communicate.
Hearing your partner’s voice everyday is one of the key things that keeps your relationship going forward. If your partner is out of town, keep him/her busy with your voice. Schedule a time that you both will be using to connect each other. Contacting your partner every day or every other day is a great way to ensure that you remain close. Talking to each other will help you keep up to date with each other’s news and help you to remain a constant part of your partner’s day to day life.
Hearing your partner’s voice everyday is one of the key things that keeps your relationship going forward. If your partner is out of town, keep him/her busy with your voice. Schedule a time that you both will be using to connect each other. Contacting your partner every day or every other day is a great way to ensure that you remain close. Talking to each other will help you keep up to date with each other’s news and help you to remain a constant part of your partner’s day to day life.
2. Don’t Cheat on your partner.
Because your lover is not close to you, you might want to cheat because they can’t see you. Remember, doing this will gradually take your desire for your partner. Try to remain the honest person you’ve always been.
Because your lover is not close to you, you might want to cheat because they can’t see you. Remember, doing this will gradually take your desire for your partner. Try to remain the honest person you’ve always been.
3. Try to Be Honest and Open with each other.
Maybe you’re having a feeling about something, probably making feel unhappy or feel that things could be improved, share your thoughts with your other half; he/she might be thinking the same thing or he/she might just need that little bit of extra impetus to put in the effort. As with all relationships, it is important to be honest with each other about how you feel. Biting your tongue about lack of contact from your partner may help to avoid an awkward conversation but can develop into a bad habit that impacts on your relationship.
Maybe you’re having a feeling about something, probably making feel unhappy or feel that things could be improved, share your thoughts with your other half; he/she might be thinking the same thing or he/she might just need that little bit of extra impetus to put in the effort. As with all relationships, it is important to be honest with each other about how you feel. Biting your tongue about lack of contact from your partner may help to avoid an awkward conversation but can develop into a bad habit that impacts on your relationship.
4. Don’t think NEGATIVE, be Positive.
Don’t think your partner is cheating on you just because you saw him/her taking pictures with some individuals on social network. This will kill your relationship. Take any criticism you receive with a pinch of salt and focus on each other – your happiness is all that matters in this situation. It can be very easy for other people to dismiss a long distance relationship as unsuccessful or a waste of time; it would not be everyone’s choice to enter into a long distance relationship. However it is important to remember that every relationship is different. Many long distance relationships are successful and those in them are happy together.
Don’t think your partner is cheating on you just because you saw him/her taking pictures with some individuals on social network. This will kill your relationship. Take any criticism you receive with a pinch of salt and focus on each other – your happiness is all that matters in this situation. It can be very easy for other people to dismiss a long distance relationship as unsuccessful or a waste of time; it would not be everyone’s choice to enter into a long distance relationship. However it is important to remember that every relationship is different. Many long distance relationships are successful and those in them are happy together.
5. Plan to do Things together.
Just because you are not together doesn’t mean that you cannot do things together. Take the opportunity to shake up the normal routine by playing a game online together, or watching the same film at same time. You may even add a little romance to your relationship by eating at the same time and doing some other things together at same time. Oooooooh sweet!
Just because you are not together doesn’t mean that you cannot do things together. Take the opportunity to shake up the normal routine by playing a game online together, or watching the same film at same time. You may even add a little romance to your relationship by eating at the same time and doing some other things together at same time. Oooooooh sweet!
6. Be Romantic, add Romance.
It is sweet to remind your partner that you still care. You could send them a surprise by sending a letter/text or forward them a song that reminds you of them on social networks. Send pictures that reminds them of you. Little treats like this will help to brighten your partner’s day and bring back that romantic side to your relationship that can often be lost in the distance between you. Just do this!
It is sweet to remind your partner that you still care. You could send them a surprise by sending a letter/text or forward them a song that reminds you of them on social networks. Send pictures that reminds them of you. Little treats like this will help to brighten your partner’s day and bring back that romantic side to your relationship that can often be lost in the distance between you. Just do this!
7. Arrange Often Visits.
It might be a visit to each other’s homes, a holiday together and meeting somewhere new for a day out. Arrange to see each other and spend time together; whether it’s every weekend, once a month or once a year, it is important to arrange time to spend together. Ensure that you spend valuable time together and remind yourselves why you are committed to your long distance relationship. Doing this help you motivate yourselves.
It might be a visit to each other’s homes, a holiday together and meeting somewhere new for a day out. Arrange to see each other and spend time together; whether it’s every weekend, once a month or once a year, it is important to arrange time to spend together. Ensure that you spend valuable time together and remind yourselves why you are committed to your long distance relationship. Doing this help you motivate yourselves.
Abiding to these six secrets, your long distant relationship will always look as if it’s close. Always motivate each other, don’t cheat on your partner just because he/she is not close by… remember, his/her friends that knows you might be seeing you. It’s always good to be good. Be Faithful!
Thanks to Journal of Stress for the inspiration
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