LADIES: 3 TYPES OF MEN WHO ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE
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they want to share their lives with that special
man of their own and raise a family together.
Unfortunately not all men want to get married.
To tell the truth not all women want it either.
But if you want to get married and you are
currently in a relationship, the following three
types of men are probably wasting your time in
your pursuit to become a wife.
3 TYPES OF MEN WHO ARE NOT READY FOR
MARRIAGE
1. HE MOVED IN WITH YOU AND HAS NO JOB,
CAR OR ANYTHING OF HIS OWN.
Usually this type of man was momma’ed
( Yoruba’s calls them Omo-Mummy ) forever and
neither knows how, nor has the desire to,
become self- sufficient.
This man goes from his momma’s house to
his woman’s house as long as she is willing
to take care of him.
He’s used to never having to work, clean up, or
buy anything for himself. He looks for women
who will treat him like a king while he sits on
your throne, eating your food, using your water
and electricity, and playing video games while
you are out working.
If you have to take care of him like a child, he
is not going to marry you.
2. HE NEVER TALKS ABOUT MARRIAGE.
When you bring up the subject, he may go
along with you to keep you happy. Ask him to
set a date and pay attention to his response.
Does he laugh it off or say “let’s talk about it
later” or does he just change the subject?
Also be careful because he may try to distract
you with sex. If he wants to marry you, he will
propose and/or start talking about it to you. If
he doesn’t talk about it, especially after you
have been together for years, he is not going to
marry you.
3. HE HAS SEVERAL CHILDREN WITH DIFFERENT
WOMEN, NONE OF WHOM HE MARRIED.
If his claim to fame is the number of kids he
has, girl run.
Why would you want to be with someone who’s
fathered several children with several women yet
parents none of them (this should be obvious if
he is sitting around on your couch) ? You may
even have kids by him, but if he doesn’t talk
about marriage during or after your pregnancy/
pregnancies, chances are he never will.
If bragging about the number of kids he has is
his only conversation, he is not going to marry
you.
Don’t think for a minute that you can change a
man into being what you want. You shouldn’t
even want to because that’s manipulation and you
wouldn’t want anyone to do that to you.
If you are not in a relationship now, avoid the
types of men mentioned above. It would just
waste your time because they don’t want to get
married. If you are living with one type of man
mentioned above, you need to change the
situation. You may need to get your own place
or put him out of yours.
The more you prolong it, you run the risk of
missing out on the man who is for you . Don’t
be afraid to be alone or believe that you don’t
deserve to be with someone who wants the same
things you do.
Think about what is best for you and act
accordingly. Your husband is out there, so don’t
miss him by wasting time with someone who has
no interest in walking down the aisle.
Ladies, what other red flags should women watch for if they want to get married?
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